Remove Negative People and Influences

It can be challenging to get rid of the destructive voices inside your head when you are surrounded by people who are cynical. Once you start to hear negative words all the time or feel negative attitudes, it's difficult not to agree with them. Oftentimes you won't even notice negativity and your positive outlook on things start to dissolve. While there are many way for you to deal with negative people, it simply may be best for you stop communicating and interacting with them. People who are verbally negative all the time are most likely having negative thoughts, too. Individuals like this can be toxic and you don't need that in your life when you are trying to improve your thinking and your life.

Thinking positively and also having positive influences will have a lasting effect on your 






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Seek Greatness

If loving yourself is something you struggle with, the first thing you must do is choose to love yourself—even if you don’t feel that way. More than a feeling, love is an action—it’s a choice. Here are some more tips for learning to love yourself:

•    Act as though you love yourself. Fake it until you’ll make it!

•    Renew your attitude regularly. Check your negativity at the door.

•    Always seek opportunities to grow and improve.

•    Nurture your appearance. If you’re not pleased with the way you dress or wear your hair, change it up to boost your confidence.

•    Be specific about what you need and want, and tell yourself you deserve it.

•    Seek greatness.

•    Welcome the disciplining and stretching that comes with striving to be great and see it as a validation that you’re worthy of greatness.  

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How To Live Through Difficult Moments

Being able to live through difficult moments, no matter how hard, is highly dependent on your outlook on life. As I mentioned just a few sentences ago, I was extremely depressed after my wife passed away. My family and friends did their very best to keep a smile on my face; their love and care saw me through many nights of pain and loneliness. But I had something to live for: my three sons. Knowing that I had to care for them and be at my best emotionally, mentally, and physically gave me a sense of hope and a reason to smile even through my sadness. Because I got through that incredibly dark season, I can say with great confidence today that success in any situation is attainable for you and me

       Living your best life requires infinite smiling! Being able to smile at all times, or better said, being able to laugh through good and bad times, strengthens you. There’s even a proverb that backs this up: “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.”[1]  If you don’t learn how to smile even through life’s darkest moments, trust me—your grief and disappointment will swallow you whole. So, the key is finding that something, searching through the dust of disappointment to find that one shining stone of hope that reminds you there is life beyond the tears and that the tears you shed will only make you better and more prepared to handle what comes with being in the winner’s circle of life. My "something" happened to be my sons.

"Think Like AWinner, Act Like You Won provides practical wisdom and advice that will inspire many to embrace a new path on their way to leading extraordinary lives."

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[1] Proverbs 17:22, NIV