Thursday, April 19, 2018

Thinking, Thinking! Thinking!

Thinking, Thinking! Thinking! There are two types of thinking.  We have to understand the difference between negative thinking and positive thinking in order to attract positive life changes.

Negative thinking is when people tend to find the worst in everything, while positive thinking is when people focus on the good and expect the best. Positive thinkers cope better with stress which in turn gives them good health and a much better life whereas negative thinkers only feel worse, and this feeling brings low or no self-confidence and confusion.


BELOW ARE 5 PRACTICAL WAYS TO CHANGE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS AND ATTRACT POSITIVE CHANGES IN LIFE


* START THE DAY RIGHT
Invest a small amount of your morning to create a mindset of resilience and optimism as this will prepare you for the day. Tony Robbins said: "80 percent of success is due to psychology - mindset, emotions, and beliefs - and only 20 percent is due to mechanics." So start the day right and keep your mind on things that bring you joy and fulfillment.


* BE SOLUTION-FOCUSED, NOT PROBLEM-CENTERED
A positive attitude doesn't mean ignoring or repressing life's anxieties and troubles. It involves seeing things as they are, visualizing how they might become better, and then taking action to make them so; rather than seeing things negatively from the start, expecting things to get worse and barely summoning the energy to prevent a disastrous outcome.

* FIND ANY IMPROVEMENT TO THE CURRENT SITUATION
Focus on success, get used to looking for improvements in the current situation as a solution, regardless of its size. For example, half a pound loss may seem weak when your goal is 50 pounds, but this is a step in the right direction.

* CONJURE UP AN INNER COACH
Many of us are more confident and work better when someone encourages us. A successful person is self-conscious and responsible to him or her self. One way to strengthen these traits is to conjure a coach in your mind. Remember that person that inspired you when faced with a scary task? Ask yourself, "What would this person do if he or she is faced with this task?" This would undoubtedly help you continue trying until you overcome the fear or obstacle.

* GIVE YOURSELF DAILY "DONE WELLS"
Take a few moments every day to ask the question, "What have I done well today?" This simple thought reinforces reassurance on a daily basis. In turn, the positive feedback that you give yourself eventually helps you to develop courage and self-confidence, which are extremely important for success.

Being consistent with these tips will help ensure  that you will have a life filled with positive thoughts and positive outcomes.

Tuesday, April 17, 2018

GIVE YOURSELF DAILY "DONE WELLS"

GIVE YOURSELF DAILY "DONE WELLS"

Take a few moments every day to ask the question, "What have I done well today?" This simple thought reinforces reassurance on a daily basis. In turn, the positive feedback that you give yourself eventually helps you to develop courage and self-confidence, which are extremely important for success.

Being consistent with these tips will help ensure  that you will have a life filled with positive thoughts and positive outcomes.


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Thursday, April 12, 2018

CONJURE UP AN INNER COACH




* CONJURE UP AN INNER COACH


Many of us are more confident and work better when someone encourages us. A successful person is self-conscious and responsible to him or her self. One way to strengthen these traits is to conjure a coach in your mind. Remember that person that inspired you when faced with a scary task? Ask yourself, "What would this person do if he or she is faced with this task?" This would undoubtedly help you continue trying until you overcome the fear or obstacle.










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Monday, April 9, 2018

FIND ANY IMPROVEMENT TO THE CURRENT SITUATION



FIND ANY IMPROVEMENT TO THE CURRENT SITUATION


Focus on success, get used to looking for improvements in the current situation as a solution, regardless of its size. For example, half a pound loss may seem weak when your goal is 50 pounds, but this is a step in the right direction.






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Saturday, April 7, 2018

BE SOLUTION-FOCUSED, NOT PROBLEM-CENTERED



A positive attitude doesn't mean ignoring or repressing life's anxieties and troubles. It involves seeing things as they are, visualizing how they might become better, and then taking action to make them so; rather than seeing things negatively from the start, expecting things to get worse and barely summoning the energy to prevent a disastrous outcome.   


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Thursday, April 5, 2018

God Created People To Have Power

#God created people to have power. They were not created to escape or window-shop or play video games all day. People were made to work. Much misunderstanding on work exists because of confusion about what we are created to be and do. God makes sure we understand that work is a vital piece of who we are. When we find ourselves at work, whether 9-to-5, a nightshift, in a office cubicle or at home, we shouldn't think we missed our purpose. We are actually doing what God created us to do!

Your work is a chance to imitate God by bringing goodness, order, light, and life into the lives of others. Notice that God's work in creation doesn't seem at all like drudgery. "And God saw everything that he had made, and behold, it was very good" (Genesis 1:31). When we see God's purpose in our work then our attitude about our own work will reflect Him. Work can be a delight!




Wednesday, April 4, 2018

Understand That You Are Not God:


Understand that you are not God:
     Dishonest practice is the preventer of success. Sometimes you just have to own up to the fact that something’s not working. Face the fact that trying to fix the situation has failed. I know your heart is probably prone to helping victims and the less fortunate, and believe me, that’s a good quality. But, sometimes you have to realize that your ability is not good enough. Don’t let your concern for others distract you. Let go and let God. You are not God. This doesn’t mean that this person won’t get better if you don’t intervene. It just means that God is more suitable to handle the situation, so let the one who is in charge take charge.

     It is natural that when you see someone in a difficult situation that they’re facing you want to come to their rescue, and in most cases you can. But watch out for the ones who seem to repeatedly have needs and always come to you. They will try to make you feel like you should be there for them, when God is the only one who could be there at all times.
     One thing you must understand is that helping someone is different from carrying them. There is a saying that goes like this, “God helps those who help themselves.” What I am trying to say is one of the biggest hindrances to a person’s growth is always helping them and not giving them a chance to help themselves. You may think that you’re being helpful but in reality you’re blocking their learning process. What if this is God busy at work? How are they going to grow? In fact, if you are always there for them, why would they even attempt to do something for themselves? I know helping others makes you feel good, but you are interfering with their growth process. Give them room to grow on their own, and trust me, they will find God if they are really pursuing their purpose.

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Monday, April 2, 2018

What inspired you to write this book?

What inspired you to write this book?

I was in my own period of questioning about the way successful people think and behave. What I observed during this period is that people who achieve success, whether outwardly or inwardly, they all think positively, and also have daily habits that help them to be productive and achieve their goals. Thoughts and daily actions must go hand in hand. This seemed to be an important piece missing in goal setting books. I was inspired to share what I learned with readers on the same journey.  https://thinklikeawinner.carlmathisbooks.com/



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